Pattern of dating married men
When a married man courts a woman, he takes a huge risk—a risk that reveals he wants her very much.
His time with her, whether texting, secret coffee dates, or time spent in her bed, reveals a commitment much deeper than the single men she has been with. They didn’t have to engage in clandestine plans and think of elaborate excuses.
Some men choose a wife who is like a domestic worker bee; she makes him look good by keeping his home life humming.
He feels entitled to stray, usually with more exciting women who have zero kitchen skills. He doesn’t want to marry a sexy siren, and as long as his wife is doing her job raising the kids and keeping a low profile, he will be content to share good times with you – but not much more.
Susan is the successful owner and operator of four metropolitan home design studios. She’s also involved in an affair with a married man.
Susan has been asked by close friends and family who are aware of the affair what drove a successful, attractive, intelligent woman to start and continue a relationship with a married man for nearly three years?
You already know this is a story that does not end well.
Maybe today you’re only fantasising about getting involved with an unavailable man, and you’re looking for a sign that the universe is warning you to stop, take a deep breath, and just walk away.
Most men who cheat report that they do so with multiple partners across many years.In comparison to married men who cheat, the majority of women who enter into affairs with married men report that they do so because they are in love or falling in love with him.There may be a vast disconnect between what Susan is thinking and what this man she thinks is the man of her dreams is thinking.And why would she stay with him if he doesn’t continue to work that magic that won her?
The intimacy they share, the illusion he creates, is tremendously mesmerizing.She may perceive it as his commitment, an investment in their relationship.