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One reader wrote to us about his "sugar dating" experience. She wants what a girlfriend or wife might get if they found a well-off man. In fact, most women keep the whole thing quiet and, at most, discuss it with one girlfriend who is doing the same thing and maybe taught them the gig.
After processing everything I went through, now I realize they’re just not necessarily willing to put up with bullshit and they’re not going to sit there and think everything is rosy all the time.
Then her rent, it was ,500, ,600, plus a security deposit. That last relationship actually destroyed my ability to trust, and it was one of the factors that broke up the relationships that followed.
I would go into relationships prior with, let’s assume she’s not crazy and she’s nice unless there's proof that something is wrong. I became what I didn't like about other people through that relationship.
The bartenders, owners, or servers, they don’t just see me as some old guy dating this young girl..
When there's no feeling behind it, no desire to be with someone because you have a semblance of attraction, you're just providing a service.
I wasn't meeting younger women in the bars I went to, and when you go on a site like Bumble, you’re aren't going to find many women on there who are open to dating a 50-year-old guy. The next woman was someone I would call a "girl next door." She probably shouldn't be on the website, and she wants an emotional connection, but she needs financial assistance. After two months she said, I don't want money anymore, I just really enjoy getting to know you.