Dating in japan times
For example, I have found that, in my experience, particularly on first dates, things tend to go much more smoothly when you make a firm plan and you, the man, take care of the arrangements.This may sound chauvinistic and perhaps in some other cultures it would be considered so.If you’ve been following my work here at Taiken Japan for the past 18 months or so, you’ll have noticed that I have tried my best to cover a wide swathe of topics pertinent to living in Japan.However, there is one subject I have stayed away from, that is at least until now. Yes, of course it is the fascination with the culture, the art, the history and the people that brings most foreigners to Japan initially.Indeed, the pursuit of that ideal lady to be my life partner here in Japan has been something of an ongoing struggle throughout the 10 years since I first moved to Tokyo.
A common criticism many of my Japanese female friends have of Japanese guys these days is that they are indecisive and sometimes come across as lazy and non-committal. More so in Japan than in other countries, going to the home of someone of the opposite sex is seen as something that only people in a committed relationship would do.So, instead, today I hope to impart a few simple pearls of wisdom garnered from almost a decade of dating in Japan.